What does Evangelical Christianity stand FOR, rather than against?

I still love all of my Christian Brothers and sisters, but I have left their way of worship far behind me. I believe that God waits till the end to judge us so why can't we abide by the same protocol? However as you say they are always stating the things that they are against . So let's say what they are for: The strength of the family unit as it was by designed to be that is man, woman, children. This is the way that the biological vehicles that we all dwell in were designed to perform and any deviation from that design is by deffinition DEVIANT. However the human was made with a very strong will and many variations have arisen from that original concept. We were given free will by the creator so is this not a part of who and what we should be? It's all so confusing but I have found that if you live in the name of love and light little else matters. Blessed be...~M~